How To Manifest A Life You Love Using the Law of Attraction (BONUS Action Steps!)
Over the last few years I can honestly say I’ve built my dream life which is still very much so evolving. I’ve manifested my dream career of getting paid to travel and photograph around the world, an international book deal titled WANDER LOVE with dream stockists like Anthropologie and Urban Outfitters, a loving relationship with someone I met on the road who is also up for adventures, and my recent apartment in Sydney with a Mykonos-inspired design rooftop keeping my wanderlove well and truly alive during this time.
Today I’ll be sharing with you the real, tried and tested way of how to manifest a life you love using the law of attraction through my own personal experiences, proudly created in loving partnership with Pinterest for Women’s Empowerment Month.
First things first, what is Manifestation and the Law of Attraction?
Manifestation is the process of turning a specific goal or desired outcome into reality, through your thoughts, beliefs, actions and emotions. For example, getting a book deal and becoming an internationally published Author. Attracting a certain someone or something into your life like love, money or your dream apartment.
The first thing to know is that you are always manifesting — you started manifesting as soon as you were born and entered this universe. So it’s really about using the law of attraction to manifest intentionally.
Law of Attraction: How to Manifest Step 1
Understand how the Universe and the Law of Attraction works
In order to manifest a specific goal or desire you need to learn how to manifest intentionally by understanding that the Universe and the Law of Attraction works in a fine balance of duality. Think yin and yang - good and bad - positive and negative - there is always a balance happening but it’s our own perception on how we choose to see any given situation.
Similar to my meditation practice of Vipassana (insight meditation), in the initial stage of learning about the practice you are guided to come to a sense of heightened awareness; further exploring all corners, practicing gratitude, then coming back to a state of equilibrium.
By first being aware of how the universe and the law of attraction works is when we can come to understanding and the complete acceptance of knowing there are both sides to anything that we wish to manifest, and choose to see that everything is balanced.
Law of Attraction: How to Manifest Step 2
Get crystal clear and intentional on what it is you want to manifest
It’s important to get clear on your vision and clarify what it is that you desire. You need to be intentional with knowing ‘your why’ of your particular desire: from how it will serve you to the positive influence it will have on the people around you as well. Knowing this will avoid any resistance or blocks to receiving what you wish to manifest.
I’ve manifested all-expenses-paid trips to dream luxury destinations by getting so clear on my visualisation of exactly what I was doing, who I was with, what I was wearing, right down to the very emotion that I was feeling. Remember to be so crystal clear that you can taste, feel and breathe it into existence.
Law of Attraction: How to Manifest Step 3
Emotional Embodiment
The law of attraction and language of the universe is vibration and frequency. So in order to manifest something intentionally this means that we need to speak in its language right? The highest energy vibrations on the emotional scale are gratitude and love.
Contrary to popular belief, it’s not actually about being happy all the time it’s rather having an open heart to feeling the whole spectrum of emotions in a state of deep love and gratitude. When you are in the negative state it's not about staying in or suppressing that feeling but more so about moving forward and feeling gratitude for all the lessons that it will bring when your manifestation arrives. The fine balance, remember!
Make gratitude a habit. It’s the unification of all of the different experiences in life and the acceptance for all that is right now. The present moment.
Law of Attraction: How to Manifest Step 4
Take action from a place of love
Despite what other information sources are telling you out there, you need to pair the energetics of your inner world work with the tangible outer world action.
Think of it like this: the action is the bridge between the physical and spiritual realm.
There are certain things that the Universe, God or higher source can do that you can’t, and vice versa, so it’s really a co-creation and the ACTION TAKING is part of your side of the deal.
Here’s the thing, it needs to be taken from a place of love and receiving. It won’t work if your actions are taken from a place of scarcity and fear as you would be vibrating at a low frequency. When inspired action taken from a place of love is paired with GRATITUDE and the energetic inner work you’ll notice how things manifest a lot faster. You really want to make sure you have a good balance in your life from the inner and energetic work as well as inspired action taken from a place of love.
Law of Attraction: How to Manifest Step 5
Surrender and Trust the Process
With all that I just mentioned there is also the part that requires letting go of the how and trusting that it’s on its way and is already happening. This is the part where most people can go wrong as they expect and then feel disheartened when they don’t witness anything come into fruition. You can’t be so rigid on ‘the how’ as this will cause resistance and blocks to your manifestation. Learn to surrender and trust the process: work on having the deep knowing it’s coming; it’s already on its way; then trust in divine timing and be open to receiving.
Through these five steps I’ve been able to manifest so many incredible things in my life and I would love to hear what steps you have used or plan to try out using the law of attraction to manifest your desires, whether that be money, love, or anything else specific.
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